How can we help?

Human beings, on the whole, want to help each other. But why? And why does it sometimes fail, or not materialise, or make things worse? Why does it sometimes benefit the helper more than whoever they’re supposed to be helping?

I’ve been thinking and writing about this a lot, so I’ve created a new space to develop it further.

At howcanwehelp.blog, I’m looking into what we can learn from the diverse fields of psychology, philanthropy, development aid, activism, community, volunteering, and others, about how to help better.  

It draws on my own experience as a journalist covering international aid and social enterprise, as a student of philanthropy, and as a writer/editor helping charities to communicate their work, as well as time spent volunteering, training and mentoring. And of course, as a human who has often failed to ask for help when it was needed, and failed to give help when it was needed. 

I’d love to hear your feedback or suggestions of what to explore next – hope to see you there.

“Success is not guaranteed”: writing as exploration

Unpredictable outcomes

Years of formal education have drummed into us the idea of essay as formula, a rigid structure to follow. That structure may have helped to organise your thinking, but essay-writing also sparks less positive memories: of set titles that fail to inspire, non-negotiable deadlines, struggles to meet a particular word count. 

Go back to the original meaning of the term, though – from the French essayer, ‘to try’ – and the essay becomes a whole lot more interesting. 

I was reminded of this in a recent Vox podcast about the work of Albert Camus, which also explores why he chose the essay form. 

“An essai is a trial, it’s an attempt. And… success is not guaranteed,” says Robert Zaretsky, a philosopher and historian, interviewed on the podcast.

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Blogger’s guilt

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Everyone loves a list

If it’s easy to start blogging these days, it’s even easier to stop. Or at least to pause.

So many reasons: not enough time (I’ll do it when that deadline is over); other priorities (I need to focus my attention/writing brain on something else right now); perfectionism (there’s no point in posting something mediocre); lack of fresh ideas (there’s nothing exciting me to write at the moment); unconvinced of the payback (it won’t make any difference if I wait a bit longer). Continue reading “Blogger’s guilt”